Saturday, March 2, 2013

Sometimes We Have Fights. Or Arguments. Whatever You Wanna Call Them.

headband: raynejaye   l   top: cozy   l   leggings: windsor   l   flats: coconuts


Last night we had one of those. And they usually almost always have the same exact pattern. First Marsa and Jerry start the night by having a super awesome time and we're all like "i love you sooooo much!" *muah muah muah. And then 10 super fun minutes later, Jerry says something inappropriate. And when I say inappropriate, I mean dumb. And when I mean dumb, what I really mean is something that offends me. So naturally, he gets the mean face. Yes, it has a name. "The mean face." And then we stop talking. By this time, we're no longer having fun. But we still kinda secretly love each other. Moving on. So the silent treatment continues and Jerry doesn't know what to do. His choice of action is to leave me alone and give me some space. Sometimes I like that but sometimes I don't. It depends. I'm very complex. Ha-ha anyway, 10 minutes pass and it's still quiet around here but I still occasionally give Jerry the mean face. Jerry then gives me a sad face and says sorry. But I'm stubborn so I continue with the mean face. Another 10 minutes pass and by this point, I realize I'm being a dumb-dumb and I start to hate the awkward silence. So I wait for Jerry to look at me again and when he does, I give him the "i'm not mad at you anymore" face. And then he says sorry, and we make-up, and he gives me the biggest hug ever. And then we live happily ever after. Well, at least until our next silly argument. The End.

41 comments:

  1. Oh my gosh! Your earrings are so gorgeous!! I love your top!!!
    Regarding your argument with your hubby, it's normal. We all go through it some times. Just stay strong.

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  2. love the shoes! :)


    xoxo,
    http://theweirdperfectionist.blogspot.com/

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  3. All girls are realy complex, and men are not able to understand all variety of our emotions and reactions, though to us all of them seem to be quite understandable:) pretty outfit btw:) Lovely pictures as well;)
    Have a great time!

    Best wishes, Alexandra
    www.svetusvet.blogspot.com

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  4. Love this outfit! Also your story-adorable. You make fighting even sound cute. The end :)

    XO, Kelsey

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  5. Haha, nice story =]

    Love the cobalt top!


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  6. Okay, I love your outfit. It looks classy + laid-back and blue looks good on you!
    Second, I was smiling while reading :) I couldn't help it! It reminds me of my relationship. As long as you both are honest and you still "secretly love each other" even if you fight, then you'd be alright! x

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  7. Totally get where your coming from!

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  8. My husband once asked me what to do when I'm mad. I told him to hug me really tight and I won't be mad anymore. He asked if that will always work. I told him I can't promise that. Guess I'm complicated too. Poor husbands.

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  9. bahh!!! I love liquid leggings, i just ordered some!! and funny, isn't it that marriage isn't ALWAYS blissful. justin and i definitely have our little fights but we always make up in the end, and that's the best part :)

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  10. You guys are so sweet! :) Love that you both are ok now. :)
    And I love your look too dear! That style is so cool :)

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  11. I love the leggings and this entire look :D You look so cute! I really like the earrings too, very unique :D

    Great post!

    XO
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  12. this outfit is perfection. & we have arguments all the time babe.

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  13. Lol all healthy relationships are going to have those - but I have to say, I like how you two resolve things ;)
    Super cute studded top and printed flats!

    Trendy Teal

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  14. haha, I so know what you mean by that! Cute look. :)

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  15. From somewhere I know that kind of argument! :D At least it's not screaming and shouting and making neighbours fearing for their lives ;)

    xoxo Minnie
    colourofthewinds.blogspot.co.at

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  16. Haha great story! About the 'mean face'.. Your writing is fun to read! Hope the silent is over by now :)

    The headband looks great on you! Love the last picture :)
    X

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  17. "Yes it has a name. Mean Face", haha had to laugh while reading this story. But I guess, it's quite normal to fight with his/her partner at any time. :)

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  18. Thaaaaat's pretty much how our arguments go too. I always wish somewhere in there there was a step where I get new shoes though.

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  19. Hahaha I have this type of argument with my hubby too! But we seldom stay mad at each other for long. It's just not worth it. Love ur leather leggings btw ;)

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  20. that all too familiar "mean face".

    glad you two made up :)

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  21. this is my life. haha i do the EXACT same thing. & your outfit is the CUTEST.

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  22. I love that top and your accessories! xx

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  23. you looks so pretty, and i loved your blue top so much!

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  24. I love the leather looking pants :)

    And on a side note, I like how you two deal with silly problems (obviously it's not too serious if you guys still end up making up and saying sorry right?) because when you look back, the fight isn't worth losing someone who means the world to you! I think fights and arguments are unavoidable in any relationship, but how you deal with it matters more!

    -Sarah
    The Weekend Diary

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  25. You look so amazing. I love your blue top. I am glad that the two of you made up after your argument.

    Tracy @ Sunny Days and Starry Nights

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  26. Sounds like our "fights" around here too. They usual start with a little bickering first!

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  27. Sounds exactly like my house. Joe makes me "use my words" when we "argue" and I hate it! I never get to give the mean face;)

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  28. Oww, your fights/arguments are so cut!!
    Nice top by the way.

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  29. You are hilarious! Love the whole outfit!

    kashiariley.blogspot.com

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  30. you are hilarious! I feel I am like you, I never know if I want my space or leave me alone! haha your outfit is adorable! i think my fav of yours right now :) those pants are seriously hot pants on you! they look divine!

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  31. hahah oh I'v done like the exact same before , love the post and you look gorgeous .

    xo Meg<3

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  32. hi girl,the whole outfits rock! is the legging in leather?i guess i should get one too..too perfect!

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  33. Royal blue is an amazing color on you, gorgeous!

    xx
    Kelly
    Sparkles and Shoes

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  34. I'm pretty sure that is my hubby and I too ;) I heart your outfit, especially your top, the color looks great on you!

    xoxo,
    Shio

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  35. BAhhhhaha! Sounds so familiar. Although, I am super impatient, so I can't keep the silence for too long. I just get annoyed..

    So funny, Marsa. btw do you look fab while mean facing too?

    Victoria

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  36. i love your headband its so gorgeous! going to check out raynajaye!

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  37. love your outfit, and the headband!

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  38. aww this sounds so familiar!! haha..totally happens to my husband and me too. =P
    xo,
    nancy

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  39. That is my boyfriend and me all the time! Then I feel like a totally idiot after I cool off.

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  40. OMG this is literally the story of my life!! I'm thinking we were separated at birth :)

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