Saturday, March 9, 2013

Let's Talk About...



LOVE.
warning: things are about to get mushy around here.


So we're complete opposites you know... me and jerry. There were even times when I thought... hey this might not work out after all. But obviously, I was wrong. Wayyy wrong. But we definitely are different people. Jerry's a morning person. I'm not. I'm really not. I wish I didn't have to sleep so that I would never have to experience waking up again. That's how much I hate getting up in the mornings. Hah. He's also very logical with everything and sometimes I don't understand the things he says or does. At those times, I've learned to just call him a crazy man and move on. But I've always known how lucky I am to be with Jerry. We fight, bicker, and sometimes act like we don't like each other, but those times never last and I realize how blessed I am to have him in my life. Sometimes I feel like I don't deserve him at all. I feel spoiled guys. That's pretty much the gist it. One time, I caught him putting his own blankets on me in the middle of the night because I looked cold. I wanted to give him a big kiss at the time but I was just so tired and out of it that I fell asleep within seconds haha. Another time, he rubbed my cold feet with his hands to warm them up because I have a hard time falling asleep when my feet are cold. And guys, I don't even like touching my own feet! They gross me out. ick.... He's also an amazing listener. Especially when I'm being whiny. And when I think about my whiny self, all I can think is, "wow I would be so annoyed with me right now." But Jerry just listens and hugs me all the while. I just don't get it. I'm soooo lucky! Sometimes I just need to write these things down so that I never forget. Some of my favorite moments are when we snuggle in bed and watch a tv show together on our little laptop screen. Last night I wanted to watch The Bachelor but I knew he wouldn't want to so I went to watch it by myself in bed. Within a few minutes, he came in to watch it with me. It made me happy even though he was falling asleep through all of it. He just keeps getting better and better everyday guys. And sometimes, I just need to write it out because I feel so blessed. Also, my sweet man is doing the dishes right now. I need to go give him a hug.


34 comments:

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  2. Wow, our marriages sound a like! Except Riley is a night person and I am a morning person. Your hubs sounds just right for you ;-)

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  3. I really like this post, it's full of so much honesty :)

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  4. This is so sweet, and you're very lucky to have found the right person for you (even if it didn't always feel like it).

    Completely unrelated topic: Can I just say how much I LOVE that you have buttons for the Current and Upcoming Giveaways?? So convenient. I mean really, every blog should have that haha.

    Melanie
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  5. Aww i love this! It's easy to take for granted something you live with every day, but I feel the same way about Ian. He's literally an angel, I swear!

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  6. love the top and your scarf dear :)

    http://theweirdperfectionist.blogspot.com/

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  7. LOVE this look, and what you wrote! Too darn cute you guys. {and great styling too...that jacket and the scarf take a casual look to the next level.}

    ~Jacy

    www.laviedelenore.blogspot.com

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  8. Awwww...can I just say I hope to one day have a marriage like that? That's just amazing girl, I'm so happy you found someone like Jerry :)
    Haha, my parents are great examples of opposites as well. Hey, something about that combination must work - they've been married 32 years and I still catch them flirting!
    Oh right, so the tee and leopard scarf combo? Super cute as always Marsa :)

    Trendy Teal

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  9. Hahaha this is such a coincidence! A few days ago I scheduled a post called "oh no I just talked about love". We're telepathic :D haha! I really love this post, it's so cute!! :D

    Great post!

    XO
    scribblesofvalerie.blogspot.com

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  10. So lucky you! Love that you two are so sweet with each Marsa! :) Keep the love going! :)

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  11. That's so lovely. I really like this honest and adorable post. Having such a husband, you must be blessed :)
    Much luck for both of you furthermore!

    xx

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  12. You´re so pretty dear Marsa and love the way you write!
    Wish you a good luck! :)

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  13. Aaawwww this is a lovely post on the both of you. May your love lasts forever and ever! :)

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  14. cute post. sounds like me and my husband. love is surprising sometimes :)

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  15. I absolutely love your sense of style :)

    Kim xx

    http://kimbo95x.blogspot.co.uk/

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  16. Hey Marsa! Such a sweet post. :) Sometimes we need to sit back and count our blessings, don't we?! I love the name of your blog- too cute! Hope you have a great week!

    -Heather

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  17. So sweet and cute! It's such a blessing to be with the one who completes you! So happy you have that, Marsa. I adore all your posts because your relationship is so similar to mine and my fiancé, I can definitely relate ( most of the time)! You two are so cute! Oh and love your LOVE shirt!

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  18. Love is a funny thing, isn't it? I love that outfit.. perfectly casual!

    With Love From, B
    ♥ ♥ ♥

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  19. Some very wise friends (married for 25 years) told us before we got married to always stick it through the tough times, because after you pass through those valleys, the relationship is just that much stronger and sweeter on the other side. So far we've definitely found that to be true :) Love is hard sometimes, but it is so good. Cute post :)

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  20. The fact that he is so different than you...just means you both complement each other that much more. We've been married for a little over 5, but have known each other for more than half our lives...we are still getting to know each other, but nowadays, we just appreciate each other even more..

    Cute outfitt!!!!

    Andie's Traveling Pants

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  21. he sounds like a great catch! it really is the little things that count!!! :)

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  22. you look really beautiful! j sounds like a keeper ;))))) xO!
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  23. Marsa, you know you have a good man when he watches the Bachelor with you ;)
    floral&fudge

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  24. Opposites make the best relationships :) Those logical people need to know how to have fun, and the funners need to have someone to do their taxes for them! You definitely are a great couple

    When Mine Became Ours

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  25. adorable. It's good to be opposite! it'd be sooo boring if you were too similar. husbands are the bestest things on the planet :) that and food and clothes ;)

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  26. They (people of the universe) do say opposites attract right ? on a totally different topic can I just say your style is amazing , you always get it sooooooo right.

    xo Meg<3

    Meghan Silva's Blog

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  27. So sweet~~ you two and your young love is a joy and a blessing to watch!

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  28. how cute are the two of you! I feel the same way about my fiance! It's a blessing to have love like that. love your blog and I'm your newest GFC follower :)

    ~Chioma
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  29. So cute! And I LOVE that green jacket!

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